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Just because your link is blacklisted, doesn't necessarily mean it's spam. It may have been blacklisted because something else on that site was used in an abusive manner in the past.
Generally the easiest way to deal with the situation is to remove the link, and/or replace it with some other link that is not questionable.
If you think that the link is of good use for the article and would like to keep it, you have the following options:
Ordinarily, once the link has been whitelisted, or added to the exceptions list, the tag can be safely removed from the page. However, in some cases the bot may come back to re-tag it. Because the bot processes enormous amounts of information and tags a lot of pages, it can take several hours before the new rule goes into effect and the bot accepts its removal. To avoid any frustration, the tag should be left alone for the bot to remove if such cases occur. If the bot persists in tagging the page after it has been whitelisted, contact Cyberpower678 (talk · contribs) to investigate the situation.
Bugs can happen. After all, it's we humans that program these bots. If you have bugs to report, direct them to Cyberpower678 (talk · contribs). If you are reporting a false positive, please verify it is indeed a false positive by pasting the external link into the message to the bot operator. This verifies that the bot is seeing something it shouldn't be seeing.